Rules are a product of past negotiations.
People negotiated with each other in the past, and the conclusion at that point in time becomes the rule.
So even if what you want to do goes against existing rules, that's no reason not to do it.
In the process of growth, a human being first experiences a state in which he or she does not have negotiating ability. So it's easy to give up on an action just because the rules prohibit it.
We need to learn that "rules can be changed." Even now, as an adult, it is not easy to negotiate a change in criminal law after committing a crime that violates it, for example.
On the other hand, company rule etc. could be changed by proper negotiation. relevance
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